Ada satu questionnaire dalam buku "Loving Yourself". Aku cuba buat:
- How do you want to be loved and who do you need to talk about it?
- Not sure - What kind of affection do you want to receive and who do you need to tell about it?
- Not sure - What kind of care do you need and who do you need to ask for it?
- Not sure - What kind of comfort do you want and who do you need to speak about it?
- When I feel lonely, I want and need comfort, but I'm not sure who I need to speak to about it and I'm too not sure if have anybody willing to give the comfort I need (maybe Syidah) - What kind of protection do you require and who can you ask to give it to you?
- don't know - What do you need sexually and with whom do you need to share this?
- Of course I need a wife for that, lol. - What kind of changes do you seek in yourself?
- What kind of changes do you seek from your partner and how can you ask her or him for them?
- What kind of changes do you seek in your workplace?
- What are your ambitions? What specific encouragement do you need about them? If you could think of one phrase to repeat to yourself in support of your ambitions, what would it be?
- What situation in your life has aroused anger, caused you disappointment, made you feel hurt? What would you need to say about this situation to bring youself up to date with these feelings?
Nampaknya aku susah nak jawab soalan-soalan tu. Aku jawab sampai soalan 6. Bila sampai soalan ketujuh tu, aku pikir punya pikir, tak tahu apa yang aku patut jawab. Selama ni aku harapkan perubahan dalam diri aku, tapi bila aku baca buku ni, aku terfikir balik apakah perubahan yang paling aku nak dalam diri aku ni? Buang sikap bertangguh? Hmm entahlah. Dah aku tak jawab soalan-soalan lepas tu. Padahal soalan 9, 10, dan 11 tu agak penting bagi aku.
Harap jiwa ni bakal terisi nanti. Wallahu'alam
